Here is a new dating tip...

You are at the gym, the pool, the grocery store, sporting event, ect... where ever really... You see someone and wonder if they are single? They have something that has attracted you to them! Perhaps it is obvious or perhaps not. Just some form of chemistry. You watch them and they catch you and smile. You exchange smiles and then the exit comes. They are come gone in moment and gone forever...

Did you blow it? Should you have said something? What if they weren't single? Your friends say something comforting like "if it was meant to be you will see him again." Maybe but will you talk to them if the opportunity should come again.

I am a big believer of life being too short to miss an opportunity. There are many quick easy ways to break the ice. Especially at the grocery store. OK so maybe this will look transparent but the truth is if they are interested in you than who really cares how transparent it looks. And what if they are not single? I can assure you married or single folks love an ego boost. And if it turns out they are not single than you go about your life and never see them again. Ok for a moment you feel a bit burned but it passes and you will be onto the next. And imagine if they are single and interested? You just never know what could happen!

By Jaimy Blazynski

I am Jaimy Blazynski and I am the dating expert here in the Hartford, CT area. I remember someone asking me what qualifies me to be a dating expert to which I replied “lots of experience”.

Like many of you I was married, divorced, and a single mother for many years. And after 13 match.com dates I met my second husband. I learned a great deal through the entire experience. The most valuable lesson I learned was that attitude is everything. Ok, maybe not everything but a bad attitude can make the most attractive people look ugly!

I began this business in 2005 for 2 reasons. The first is that I want to help others learn from the mistakes I made and the challenges I have had. Everyone can find true love as long as they believe it is available to them. Change your attitude and it can change your life! Especially your love life! The second reason is because I get a rush of excitement every time I make a successful match! And we have had many. So whether you are newly married with your first baby like Melissa and Kevin, in your 40′s Like Dee and Doug, your 50′s like Darcy and Monty or my over 60 couple Rita and Harley you all have one thing in common. You are the success stories of Got 5 Minutes? that make me smile every time I think of you! I always say I will never stop until I have married everyone of! I look forward to meeting all of you at one of our speed dating events.

Jaimy Blazynski is The Date Doctor. You can hear her every Friday afternoon at 5:45 on 96.5 WTIC with Damon Scott. She can also be seen on Better CT at 3:00 PM on Fridays. Jaimy has given dating advice to thousands of people. Let her answer your dating questions

You can contact Jaimy at 860-324-6679 or info@got5minutes.com and she happily gives free advice on her website http://got5minutes.com/

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