When you think of the word "Fashionista" what comes to mind? Is it positive? Or negative? How do you define Fashionista?

After talking to many women about this subject, I discovered this term to be negative. Most women define a Fashionista as unattainable and not for them.  I get the sense women base this concept on having to be skinny, rich, blonde, perfect and a "designer-label-lover."  Several people have said Paris Hilton is the perfect example of the description above.  (Sorry, Paris!) I can see how designer labels and Paris Hilton have given the term "Fashionista" a bad rep.  But consider another possibility...

Money can buy you fashion, but money can never buy you style. In my eyes, a Fashionista is someone who is true to themselves.  They know and harness self-love that allows them to want great things from life.  They constantly push their boundaries to be a better person.  They strive for their dream job...or their dream life because they know they can have it.  Because of that love that goes on inside of them, they want to show the world their most stylish self.  

Your style file might include designer labels- and that is totally fine!  Fashionistas can like designer purses, sunglasses, shoes, etc. without meaning you are a pushy, self-righteous, snob.  You've probably taken the time to save for these items and are very responsible with your money.  Or, maybe designers aren't your thing.  Instead you get your kicks from finding the perfect deal. Or, perhaps you prefer organic clothing because you're passionate about saving and supporting our environment. Either way, a Fashionista is defined by your unique qualities, which is the vehicle to your perfect style. 

So, how do you define Fashionista? Is she someone strong, smart, witty, and caring who happens to look stylish? Remember, you can be stylish no matter your age, shape, size, budget, or cultural background.  It's defined on your terms and your qualities.  I encourage you to jot down what comes to mind right now and start creating your ideal Fashionista.  I'd love to hear your ideas on what that looks like for you.  Hoping you have a wonderful week, Fashionista!

Love,
Your Fashion Coach

By Amanda Koss Roquemore

I am a Fashion Coach, Stylist, and Writer in Southern California. I received a bachelor degree in Fashion Merchandising from Westwood College. I write for Iconography Magazine, South Bay Woman Magazine, and Hartford Woman Online. I've recently joined forces with Examiner.com to write about fashion in Southern California. {I'm very excited!}

Fashion brings me joy because of the opportunity it has to shape lives for the better. It's always been my belief that no matter what goes on outside us, we always have the power to improve our lives through creative expression, such as fashion. I enjoy teaching women how to dress their best with the clothes, budget and shape they have. There are no limits to making your fashion dreams come true! If you'd like to work with me one-on-one, please email me to schedule a Free 30 minute consultation AmandaRoquemore@yahoo.com

When I'm not thinking about fashion trends, sales and styles, I love spending time with my husband and kitty. I love working on DIY home decorating projects and working in my yard. Yoga and bike-riding are among my favorite activities as well! I look forward to getting to know you! Feel free to email me anytime @ AmandaRoquemore@yahoo.com !

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